Thoughts on the mind

Most of the stuff below might seem quite evident but if we really take note, things can improve a lot. I have always believed in nurture over nature.

It is not directly possible to access our unconscious minds. There can be a mismatch between the conscious and unconscious mind. You might consciously not like someone but unconsciously you might have feelings. You tend to repress these feelings because of some fears, like straying away from certain goals.

You might consciously want to be someone but inside you might be different. TO change yourself inside, you need to start with the outside.
Change your behavior.
If you want to do good, start doing good. Appear, to be.
We acquire virtues by first having them put them into action... we become just by the practice of just actions, self controlled by exercising self control, and courageous by performing acts of courage. Aristotle.